Thank you for your interest in my services. If you are interested in therapeutic services, please take time to answer my screening questions. Doing so will help me determine whether my services are a good fit for your needs:
What is your name please? How old are you?
What is your height and weight?
What is your favorite form of exercise? How often do you exercise?
Do you smoke? If so, how much and what?
Do you drink? If so, how often?
Do you take recreational drugs? If so, how often and what is your drug of choice?
Are you taking any prescription drugs? What is it for? Is it working for you?
Do you do anything to consciously develop yourself spiritually?
Are you in a relationship? If so, how long have you been in that relationship?
Do you know if your partner is orgasmic?
How do you hope your relationship will benefit by spending time with me?
How do you hope to benefit personally from spending time with me?
Do you have any children? If so, what are the ages and sexes?
Have you ever received educational information on how to handle a child’s sexual curiosity in an appropriate manner?
* I would like to be very clear about why I am asking this question. Sometimes children, especially those who have been molested by someone, will behave very precociously and flirtatiously with adults. This usually happens out of genuine trust and affection, in combination with the child's desire to learn and validate what they suspect healthy boundaries should be. There are some very important things that children need to learn from the adults they trust and love:
1) Adults need to set firm boundaries and teach children the importance of waiting until they are adults to have sex because healthy sexual relationships involve responsibilities that children are not capable of assuming yet.
2) Embarrassing or shaming a child is unnecessary. Simply explain the importance of waiting until they are old enough to assume the responsibilities that come with having sex before indulging in sex with anyone.
3) Children need to learn that being selective and choosing appropriate compatible sexual partnership is what results in happy, healthy, enjoyable and satisfying sexual relationships. It is essential for adults to demonstrate this by refraining from becoming sexually involved with children in any way.
How old were you the first time you had a sexual experience?
Looking back on it today, how do feel about your first sexual experience?
Do you masturbate? If so, how often?
Is it difficult for you to get erection and have an orgasm?
Can you stay on the edge of an orgasm, or does it happen more quickly than you would like?
Are you circumcised? How do you feel about the size, shape and appearance of your penis?
Do you ever watch pornography? If so, how often?
Is there a specific type of pornography that appeals to you?
Do you have any fetishes?
Is there anything else I need to know in order to be helpful?
How would you like to be contacted for an appointment?
Copy and paste the screening questions into an e-mail.
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